May God give you strength

a week before Ramadhan started, I was shoked by an email sent to our yahoogroup - K.Ina Leng's hubby passed away! Managed to trace back the sms of condolence from her las time, I sms her.. not sure what to say, I just wish her takziah and ask her to sms me her address whenever she can. I was thinking what was the thing that I really wanted to hear at that moment last time.. "be strong".."life goes on".. those are very "plastic" words I guess.. actually what i really wanted to tell her was.. "i might have been in that position - losing your soulmate..but I am really sure what you are going through and the experience will not be the same..but all I know it hurts terribly that I can't even imagine and don't want to recall how it feels like".. i couldn't help but let my mind flew to those moments..those days..